“Neither do I condemn you” – John 8:11

A picture from the Golden Gate Bridge with San Francisco in the background.
A picture from the Golden Gate Bridge with San Francisco in the background.

My travels have taken me to the San Francisco Bay Area, and apparently just in time for Gay Pride Weekend that is going on as I type. Thankfully, I have no need to go to downtown this weekend, so I will avoid seeing the debauchery.

A couple of weeks ago I was in an American metropolis that is perhaps most antithetical to San Francisco: Salt Lake City. Comparing the Mormon hub to “Babylon-by-the-Bay” is like comparing night and day in many ways, but even on the tidy streets of Utah’s capital, one cannot escape homosexuality and its controversy. As I walked down North Temple St, I saw a gentleman on a street corner holding a sign that said “WARNING HOMOSEXUALS: HELL AWAITS YOU!” Next to him was a young lady holding a sign that was equally blunt: “**** THIS GUY!”  (The first word was a colorful  Anglo-Saxon verb that rhymes with “truck.”)

I happened to be wearing my clerical collar, so I caught the attention of the anti-homosexual. As I walked by, he asked, “You’re a Christian, right?” After I answered “yes”, he tried to draw me saying, “So, you agree with my message?”

I told him that I agreed with his underlying point, that homosexualityimage is wrong, but that I disagreed with the way in which he was communicating that message. His approach lacked charity and was probably turning away more people than it was bringing to Christ. Telling people that they are going to burn in hell is not a good way to help them experience God’s mercy and love.

He rebounded by saying, “But, it would be lack of charity not to tell people the truth!”

“Absolutely! But you have to do it in the right way. Where in the Bible did Jesus ever tell someone directly that he was going to hell?”

“But in 1 Corinthians 6:9 – 10, Paul says, ‘Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.'”

image“In that letter, Paul is speaking to the Christians of Corinth. He is not speaking directly to sinners, nor is he giving a lesson on how to deal with such people. To know how to deal with people living in sin, I suggest you look at the way Christ dealt with the adulteress in John chapter 8. He did not tell her she was going to hell but won her over with his mercy and love.”

At this point in the conversation, people were beginning to gather around, and others were looking out the windows of the office building to see what was going on. iPhones were coming out, so to avoid showing up on YouTube in collar and being misinterpreted as a pro-homosexual priest arguing with an anti-homosexual, I decided to move on.

I overheard the girl holding the other sign saying that she was a lesbian. I did not have the chance to speak with her long, so I just gave her a friendly smile and told her that I would pray for her.

Neither Bible-thumping nor fire-and-brimstone preaching are going

painting by Henryk Siemiradzki
“Christ and the Samaritan Woman” by Henryk Siemiradzki

to win people to Christ. We must be like Christ with the adulteress and with the Samaritan woman at the well (cf. John 4): first show them you love them, and then help them see the truth. The truth may be painful for them, but if communicated with Christ-like love, they will accept it and it will set them free.

(For a great video on how Christians ought to treat homosexuals, check out this video on YouTube: “The Third Way: Homosexuality and the Catholic Church”.)

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My Ecumenical Visit to the Mormon Temple

imageIt is always an interesting experience to go around in clerical collar in Mormon Utah. Friendly strangers almost always stop me to say hello and ask me where I am from. I tell them that I am studying in Rome, which usually begins a conversation about what Rome is like and how awesome it must be to live there. During these exchanges, I speak about the beauty of Rome and its importance for the Church, which often motivates a remark that has always intrigued me: “Oh, so Rome is kind of like Salt Lake City for us Mormons!”

Until now, I have resisted the temptation of responding “Actually…no, not even close.” My responses have usually been more ecumenical. I want to help Mormons to the fullness of the truth, and to do that, I need to engage them and try to understand their faith.

In that spirit, I decided to visit the Mormon “Mecca” in Salt Lake City. On a bright sunny morning, my 18-year old brother and I drove to Temple Square to visit the central place of worship for the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter-Day Saints. Only worthy Mormons are allowed to enter the Temple itself. To be worthy, one must have a Temple card, the possession of which is ensured by a favorable annual evaluation meeting with the local bishop.

Temple Square really is a beautiful place. Its 35 acres contain 250 well-manicured flowerbeds 700 varieties of plants from all over the world. Between the shady trees and gardens, there are sculptures commemorating famous Mormons. The whole place is designed to be peaceful and welcoming.

The Temple itself is an interesting structure. Its architectural style imagehas the verticality of the Gothic but lacks the elaborate decoration typical of Catholic cathedrals of the same style. There are certain elements that are meant to evoke Solomon’s Temple: it is oriented towards Jerusalem and the large basin used as a baptismal font is mounted on the backs of twelve oxen as was the brazen sea in Solomon’s Temple (see Chronicles 4:2-4). The highest of its six spires is mounted with a gold-plated statue of Moroni, the angel who supposedly brought Joseph Smith to the golden plates with the writings that Smith later translated and compiled into the Book of Mormon.

Besides the Temple, the Square has three buildings that are open to visitors: a Mormon history museum and two places of worship. Strategically placed throughout the area is a well-organized group of Mormon missionaries. All of them are young ladies in their late teens and early twenties, dressed conservatively and wearing name tags that have their last name preceded by “Sister”. Underneath their name tags, each one wore another tag with the flag of their country of origin. It was truly an international group. I saw missionaries from Japan, Mongolia, Tonga, Italy, the UK, and many other countries whose flags I did not recognize.

Every time we entered a building we were greeted by a smiling

Mormon missionaries
Mormon missionaries

missionary. Upon leaving one of the buildings, a missionary asked me where I was from. When I told her that I was visiting from Rome, she said, “Oh, you have to meet Sister Turro! She is from Italy.” She called over Sister Turro and we began chatting in Italian. It turns out that she is from Sicily and was doing an 18-month mission in Salt Lake City. She began speaking very excitedly about the new temple that the Mormons are building in Rome, and she went on and on about it, assuming that I was actually interested in visiting it. But I was more interested in finding out how an Italian ended up being Mormon instead of Catholic. I tried to move towards that topic by asking her what she thinks about Pope Francis. She said that she thinks he is awesome, but that was as far as the conversation went. As soon as we got off the topic of their temple in Rome, she started getting nervous and switched back to English.

My guess is that the missionaries are trained to keep their conversations pertinent to their mission and Sister Turro saw where I was going with my question. Either way, we ended our conversation politely and went our separate ways.

I went to Temple Square wanting to better understand the Mormon

Joseph Smith: founder of the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter Day Saints
Joseph Smith: founder of the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter Day Saints

faith, and I did get a new insight. On a certain level, their church seems to be as pleasant and attractive as the grounds of Temple Square and its youthful missionaries. Temple Square says: “This international organization is well-organized, well-funded, and you can be a part of it.” But it’s not just the money and organization that makes it attractive: the other part of it is that Mormons, at least all of the ones I have met, are exceptionally nice and virtuous people. My family has lived in Utah for eight years, and we can attest that you cannot ask for a better neighbor than a Mormon.

But the problem is that once you get past the impressive buildings and nice people, you discover that a faith that is irrational and lacking credibility. The incoherence of the Mormon faith is not hard to notice. Just to give you an example, the Book of Mormon is the story of pre-Columbian civilizations of which there is absolutely no historical or archeological evidence. Since their internal theology is so shaky, they have to make up for it by making the external aspects of their church shiny and impressive as possible, and they have done a pretty good job at that.

Everyone in my family sincerely loves our Mormon friends and neighbors and it is because of this love that we want to bring them to the fullness of the faith. I often think what great Catholics they would make. If they are such good people without the sacraments, imagine how they would be with them.

St. Peter's Square
St. Peter’s Square

I hope that I will be able to dedicate at least a part of my priesthood helping these good people make the spiritual journey from Salt Lake City to Rome.

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